It has been a such a season of change (it seems it always is.) My baby boy is experiencing his last year of high school with college in the cross hairs for next year. I have almost melted down over this more than once; not because I don't want him to grow and go and experience all he was meant to but because I am selfish and fear life truly "alone." I think about what it will be like to live without anyone coming home...just me and the dogs. Yes, I know there are people who do it all the time and for years and years...but, honestly, I can't say I am looking forward to it.
Also, my current living situation is in flux as decisions about selling the house are in the air and although I try not to worry...worry comes. If it were just me, it wouldn't be a bit deal; but it isn't just me...it is my son and our two fur-babies. Oh, and I am one of those people who doesn't like not knowing the plan. I like plans.
On top of that, there are a couple of other area that I am uncertain about and so my anxiety has been having a fun time lately. That is frustrating as I have been without the anxiety for quite a while until just lately and it has returned. Maybe it is just part of who I am and I need to relax about not being able to relax?
Ultimately, over the last week or so I have realized that the last 6 years of stress and change have finally caught up with me and I am tired. I am tired of things being hard. I just think it has been too long holding up all the loose ends. I am also tired of people saying, "Wow, you have it so together!" when they never stop to get to know that I don't and that sometimes I need help too. It is like you get criticized if you don't have it together so you smile and make sure it looks all together while inside you are criticizing yourself. Crazy, huh?
I long for normal (what ever that is???) I long for loneliness to go away. I long for my family. I long for something more and something less....peace and security mostly.
