Be My Valentine Marriage Challenge Week 3 - Kiss Your Way to a Better Marriage

Be My Valentine Marriage Challenge Week 3

I have been joining in with Courtney, at Women Living Well, for her Be My Valentine Marriage Challenge and this week the challenge is a fun one!  It is a KISS your way to a better marriage!!! 

"So this week’s challenge is:

Pursue kissing your husband. Purpose to meet him at the door with a whopper of a kiss!

 

Solomon 5:16 says “His mouth is sweetness itself; he is altogether lovely.”

 

Also, respond to his initiatives for intimacy.  “S*x is like a silent cheer.” ~ Paula Rinehart

 

“Be agreeeable and interested.(~Linda Dillow, Intimate Issues)

For some readers – this is going to be an especially tough challenge.  If your love has run out – you don’t need to manufacture it on your own - remember where love comes from, (I John 4:,7,8) love comes from God.  Go to God in prayer, be honest –ask God to help bring the spark back to your marriage and restore the love you once had.

 

Our men feel stronger, more capable, and built up when we respond to their advances with a smile. Seek to give your husband a back rub, or shower together, be creative! Purpose to kiss your husband like you mean it this week!"~Courtney, Women Living Well.

 

OK, ladies, I say lets go for it!  My husband is out of town during the week so I have to wait until Friday to share that wonderful kiss with him.  I know sometimes life gets so hectic and distracting that I kind of forget to really get lost in the simple act of kissing....but not this week!  

"Be My Valentine" ~ Marriage Challenge via Women Living Well

Be My Valentine Marriage Challenge

One of the best things about blogging  is other bloggers.  I often find inspiration from other bloggers in creative pursuits, cooking, decorating and even spiritually.  Today is no exception as Courtney, over at Women Living Well, has come up with a great idea on how to celebrate Valentine's Day for a whole month and in a more meaningful way than with just a box of chocolates and a few flowers.  She is issuing a challenge to all of us wives out there to take the focus of the big "romance" holiday off ourselves and use it to honor and build up our husbands.

Courtney writes: "Each week the challenge will be the same – to praise, encourage, inspire, admire, build up, thank and appreciate your husband. But each week I will give you different ways to express your praise. Feel free to tweak it for what you think is best for your husband.

JR Miller writes “So it is in the dark hours of a man’s life, when burdens press, when sorrows weigh like mountains upon his soul, when adversities have left him crushed and broken, or when he is in the midst of fierce struggles which try the strength of every fibre of his manhood, that all the radiance and glory of a true wife’s strengthful love shine out before his eyes. Only then does he recognize in her God’s angel of mercy.”

 Let’s be angels of mercy to our husbands. We may think they are filled with confidence and strength but they are only human. They have insecurities, fears, failures, burdens and cares that we do not always slow down to recognize. We lose our tenderness in the hustle and bustle of life and this month let’s slow down and really see our husband’s with fresh eyes."

I encourage you to use this as a building block to shore up, encourage and love on your man.  Let him know exactly what he means to you.  Show him that you do appreciate and understand all the ways he sacrifices for your family out of love. Use these exercises to strengthen  your love skills (we all need refresher courses on that from time to time!)  I feel sure that your marriage will be blessed and I can't wait to get started!  Won't you join me?

Three things will last forever--faith, hope, and love--and the greatest of these is love.

1 Corinthians 13:13